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Tuesday 5 January 2016

The relationship battlefield dream

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Please can you translate this dream?
There are two massive groups of ancient soldiers, about 10,000 in all, and arranged in ranks of two groups of 5,000. I find myself in the right hand block, front row in position No.2. I look to my left and see my ex-husband in position No.1 next to me, I look at him and he turns and disappears out of sight towards the back of the group and is never seen again.

Position No.1 is immediately filled with another man, (ancient soldier) who offers me 5 metal cards. I take two cards and see what they show, they give me the choice of fighting with a sword or spear.

Directly in front of the two groups are 4 very large ghost-like black figures, and it is as if they are made of black dust or smoke and they are extremely threatening to the two groups, it is like these large figures are threatening all the men and me myself, as if they were slaves and are being brought back into control after an unsuccessful rebellion.

Filling the whole sky is a pyramid with an eye looking and surveying all that is happening, there is absolutely no hiding place from the all Seeing Eye.

There are no further facts in the dream other than these I have described.

This dream is an expression of the feelings you have had in the past, regards your relationships, you have the idea that relationships are some kind of battlefield, to be fought or wrestled with, like a battle of wills which two personalities often experience while trying hard to make a go of the relationship. 

Seeing your ex-husband backs up this idea and gives you a clue to what section of your life the dream contents are referring. Your ex-husband was in position number one on the battlefield and you were number 2 and perhaps you view men in general as always wanting to take up this position in your life, but as you know you are number 1 and must learn that it is ok to put yourself first, you don’t have to accept the opinion that men need to be number 1 or always put before yourself. Not all men expect to be number 1 in a relationship nowadays, good men see themselves as equal to their partners.

This dream is more about your own previous ideas and feelings and them being carried over into new relationships. You said yourself about the ancient soldiers and this helps you see that the old ways of thinking from both men and women are fast becoming outdated and ancient. Men have had to move forward from the old fashioned notions of “you do what I say because I’m the boss" type of thinking. The modern man has had to accept that women are equally as important as they are and even if there are still dinosaur men out there you will probably find them alone or with a woman of equally prehistoric thinking.  

Do you soldier on as you are or make changes for the better?

The soldier in your dream is offering you the choice of fighting with a sword or a spear, in other words, the outcome is the same really no matter what you use to fight your feelings or relationships with it will still have the same outcome of being killed off unless you can find a balance with your own ideas and find a place that you are comfortable with, for example getting rid of the idea that men always have to come first and that you will always have to give up something in order to make the relationship work. I guess what I am saying is make sure that you don’t have to give up things that you don’t want to in order to make a relationship work, giving up your time is a prime example because often to make a relationship work we have to dedicate a lot of time and effort into it, therefore finding a balance that works for both parties can help a relationship work out in the long run.

The black figures represent the negative aspects of relationships or negative thoughts about them, i.e. losing part of oneself to become a pair, or being a slave to a relationship by having the thoughts that you do have to lose something of yourself in order to make a relationship work. I hope you’re getting the idea now.  You also mention control and this fits perfectly with what I am trying to say, it’s about who has the main control, you or the man. You are not a slave to man, you do not have to live to make a man happy or they you. Just try hard to find something that works for you both and do the best you can.

The pyramid and all Seeing Eye is a symbol of power and controlling the power you have, it’s about mind over matter and having the wisdom to change your own deep routed or nurtured ideas and notions in order to make things balanced. The all-seeing eye stands over us to let us know that we have to see the whole picture in order to understand things better.

The slaves being brought back after an unsuccessful rebellion is another way of expressing the need for balance and harmony and sometimes we have to go through battles in order to bring about peace. You cant leave the negative feelings buried because they will eventually rise again and create new battles for you to fight. The all-seeing eye is another way of getting that point over because it doesn't miss a trick and things that you think are best left alone or left buried will rise up again and insist you deal with them. 

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