My dream was like a film playing out, there was going to be a nuclear bomb going off and I had to try and get everyone together and I was trying to get my girlfriend to come with me as well. I think we were going to a space ship which was landing to rescue us.
I told my girlfriend to get on the space ship but she wouldn't, she said: “No I have to help other people as well”.
Then the ground cracked beneath us and I was getting really frustrated that my girlfriend wouldn’t get on the space ship.
We both started running around trying to find somewhere safe but there were looters and muggers everywhere and I just wanted to find somewhere safe to go. We ended up on the top of a hill looking at the sky and then we said I love you. Then we saw a plane crash and I woke up with a jolt.
Disaster dreams very rarely predict global disaster events but often help to explain what the dreamer would view as a personal disaster. From looking at the dream contents and at the other symbols and dominant characters in the dream, i.e. your girlfriend, it isn't too difficult to work out what you deem as a possible disaster in the waiting.
Let me explain:
Your dream suggests that you feel as though you have to protect everyone from any eventuality, even things that haven’t happened yet and also things that are out of your control. Bombs are usually symbolic of explosive situations that can change the way your life is set up, this will link with the fear dream scenario where you have to learn to face your fears. It would seem that your biggest fear is about things going wrong; you would see this as a disaster because you want everything to run smoothly and stay the same. (Fear of change)
The spaceship providing the escape route is a way for you to acknowledge that when things do go wrong you either expect a 'way-out' to turn up and rescue you or perhaps you view the rescue source as a ridiculous notion and have always rescued yourself when times are tough, its hard for me to say but you will know which fits better. You also want everyone to go along with your plans and ideas because you feel it is the best thing for them, perhaps you get frustrated when they have other ideas. Spaceships also represent the unknown and feature when you do not really know what is going to happen next and also when you have to deal with the uncharted areas of life or relationships. It's all a bit alien to you.
In your dream, you want to protect everyone but your girlfriend is telling you she sees herself as the person who looks after other people and perhaps she is letting you know that you do not need to look after her. This in itself would be viewed as a disaster to you because her ideas might clash with your ideas about who does the looking after in a relationship.
In the dream, your girlfriend will not allow you to protect her and insists on helping everyone else. Perhaps you are coming to terms with having to allow your relationship to find its own level footing, a new balance that you haven’t had to find before. You are very similar characters and this is what might cause the cracked ground in the foundations of your relationship, as described in your dream.
In the dream, your girlfriend will not allow you to protect her and insists on helping everyone else. Perhaps you are coming to terms with having to allow your relationship to find its own level footing, a new balance that you haven’t had to find before. You are very similar characters and this is what might cause the cracked ground in the foundations of your relationship, as described in your dream.
The hill is symbolic of the uphill struggle that it feels like, trying to get two strong personalities (who want to be in control) to find balance and a sturdy ground base. Because you tell each other that you love each other even though you have all this going on, it means that you both want to find a way to make the relationship work because after all, that’s what you have to do when you love someone.
A plane crash helps to describe how hopes and dreams can come crashing down, this is a typical symbolic gesture of your situation because as relationships develop from what you expect in comparison to what you actually get, your ideas and dreams quickly come back down to earth.
Relationships are hard work to maintain and to keep 'flight' you must work together to do this. Of course, you both have differences as well as your similarities, you both have your own way of doing things, but this doesn't mean you cannot find a level ground that works, you need to meet halfway, somewhere in the middle to create balance and harmony within a relationship and of course love is the perfect reason to do this.
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